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• 07 Oct 2020

  Letter to my Eighteen Year Old Self

  I turn 35 tonight. When I was a younger queer kid I used to wonder, "what will life be like at 35?" Somehow, that age became the barometer for how happy I might be as a queer person in a place and time that was not friendly to any of that. So, what is it like?
• 12 Jun 2020

  We Got Married

  In August 2018, we got married in Auckland and moved to San Francisco a few weeks after. To say that was a whirlwind might be under-stating it.
• 12 Jun 2020

  Blogging in 2020

  Just after the turn of the century, we blogged—a lot. Why did we ever stop? For one, it got harder. The tools got better, but mostly worse.
• 17 Mar 2020

  Love in a Time of Quarantine

  These unprecedented times.